Showing posts with label honor cecilia paget. Show all posts
Showing posts with label honor cecilia paget. Show all posts

Friday, March 15, 2024

mrs ely - I

Thanks again to the remarkable research of the person I previously referred to as 'reader Kim', more information has come to light on the person we have come to know as Honore Bowlby-Gledhill or Honore Cecilia Paget if you prefer. Perhaps you prefer a few other of her names, and perhaps you like Mrs. Ely the best, in which case you are roughly as up to speed as Kim and I. 

I said in the post linked above that I had found a vague Australian link - that Honore's grandfather was governor of Queensland. There's a lot more connection than that, I have to tell you. She was here in the late 1930s, and she called herself Mrs. Ely, though what she meant precisely by this I don't know, as it does not seem there was a Mr. Ely (or at least, he wasn't with her, if he existed). 

I will go into greater detail of what I know about her activities as Mrs Ely in due course. In the meantime I just want to mention that I made time today to go to the Public Records Office to investigate the will of Ambrie Martin, a woman who was born in Brunswick in 1913 and died in Prahran in 1997 leaving $120 000 to her one son Peter. What has Ambrie (what an amazingly great name) got to do with anything? Well her husband (another Peter) left her for Mrs Ely in 1938 and while this presumably did not last Ambrie divorced him in 1941 and from what I can tell they did not see each other again, though I can't be sure of that. 

I will go into this more comprehensively soon. Right now I have other things to think about as my electricity has gone off with the dishwasher in mid-cycle so you can imagine how I feel. Not as happy as Ambrie did in 1941 (see below). 


Monday, February 19, 2024

more honore bowlby-gledhill

You will no doubt recall my fascination with this historical figure who seemed to do a lot of amazing things around the world from a young age but about whom there seems to be little remaining evidence. 

I was pleased to get a message from reader Kim who told me about a book by Fernando Salamanca called Diez crímenes sorprendentes de la historia de Colombia, published in 2019. Obviously I am going to have to track this book down and get to the bottom of this side of Honore's (I'll call her that from now on as her last names are a revolving list of strip-in strip-out married names and reversions to maiden names that just confuses me) biography. Kim says:

Apparently, when she left for South America, (with two detectives on her trail), she ended up in Brazil. There, after enjoying herself immensely, she was charged with prostitution and drug use. After the justice system found no evidence to support the charges, and dismissed them, the women of the area (the driving force of the witch hunt) turned instead to the church for help in removing her from the company of their men (she was drinking and gambling with the men at the clubs - maybe had an affair or two). This action resulted in her being ousted from South America and back to England. 

Kim also tells me/us that Honore died in Thailand on 19 March 1970. I'm obviously going to have to look into that further too. Thanks Kim for your help with adding more to the story. 

Meanwhile I found an interesting (?) Australian angle, I suppose a slightly tenuous one. Honore's parents met in Newfoundland. Her father, Admiral Alfred Paget (b. 1852) was not much younger than his wife, Viti McGregor's father, William McGregor (b.1846), who was the governor of Newfoundland then. Alfred and Viti married in 1906, and three years later William McGregor was the Governor of Queensland and also the first Chancellor of the University of Queensland (he'd previously been Administrator of British New Guinea). So he had a formative role late in his life in Australia. 

Viti, who appears to have spent much of her time after giving birth to Honore in continental Europe engaged in war work, was also quite a personality. She 'established a name for doing things that are eccentric' according to the Akron Beacon Journal for 10 August 1911 (p. 6). This was a report of a party she held 'at which her man-milliner was the guest of honor. When she was criticised for introducing a tradesman into society, she replied that he was not a tradesman, but a great artist.’

You will recall (or not) from earlier posts that Honore was orphaned at a young age (11) when both her parents died within a few months of each other. I suppose Alfred was not exactly a young man in 1918 - 66 I think - but Viti was surely quite young but there doesn't seem to be an official record of when she was born. Apparently she had worked unceasingly during the war, but I am yet to establish what she died from. 

More soon! 

From the Sydney World's News 28 May 1910 p. 12. Even with the deterioration through printing and then digitisation from microfilm, I can't imagine anyone thinking this is a good way to be photographed, can you? 

This is from the Sandusky Star-Journal for 9 August 1911 p. 5 and it's a bit better


Exeter Western Times 27 May 1916 p. 4

Sunday, August 15, 2021

more honore bowlby-gledhill - her disappearance in early 1926

I know you couldn't stand to wait, neither could I. This is a picture of Honore Cecilia Paget in the 9 May (Sunday) 1926 edition of the Atlanta Constitutional about young British girls who had mysteriously disappeared and reappeared. It was a phenomenon in 1926, apparently. 

'Mystery of London's Vanishing Beauties' Sunday Constitution Magazine 9 May 1926 p. 10

The article details a few troubling stories of young women disappearing, apparently under their own volition, some of whom were never heard from again (at least as of May 1926). It then gets to HCP. Note this article has undergone a process that I remember from my time in publishing in the 80s, i.e. some hotshot consultant has been engaged to tell everyone how to give news stories extra excitening by the addition of an exclamation mark to the end of almost every paragraph:

Perhaps more amazing than the disappearance of these young girls was the vanishing of Admiral Paget’s nineteen-year-old daughter and her return!  

Honor was an orphan. Very pretty and belonging to one of the most distinguished families in Great Britain, she was already quite a personage in society. It was tacitly understood that she was to lead the younger set. She was invited everywhere, and went about a great deal, but although a host of well-connected and wealthy young men were constantly at her side, she favoured no one man more than another.   

Two of her friends, the Misses Fenwick, invited her to come and stay with them at their home in Hay Hill, Berkeley Square, and Honor acccepted the invitiation. She and the two Fenwick sisters spent a good deal of time together.   

All the greater was the shock when upon their return home from a party at the fashionable Hyde Park hotel at midnight – Honor vanished!  The Fenwicks had left the drawing room for a moment, in search of a book they wanted to show their young guest and when they returned – the girl had gone!  

For a few minutes they thought she was in her room. But as the minutes lengthened and first the clock struck the quarter and then the half-hour, still all was silent. They made a room-to-room search, fearing that unwittingly they had offended her and that she might have gone to other friends. They phoned to their acquaintances and to those of Honor. But none had seen her or received from her any word.  Greatly as people of the Fenwicks’ caste abhor publicity, no course was open to them but to notify the police! 

Rumours of every kind were circulated – Honor had eloped and married secretly, Honor had gone into a convent, Honor had hidden her identity and gone on the stage, and so on and so forth.  Then her solicitor, Mr. Martin, went to Paris, where he believed he would find her. But after what was said to be a frantic search, aided by the French police, involving visits to well-known and unknown Places in Paris’ “tenderloin” he returned – alone!   

Three days after Mr. Martin arrived back in London, a startling announcement was made.   Honor Paget had come home!  But she refused to reveal a single thing concerning her absence and could not be induced to tell where or with whom she had been!  

Is it possible that this girl, highly cultured, sensitive, proud, descendant of a noble line, was afraid to speak out? Did she fear dire consequences to herself, or did she feel that the whole world would regard her with different eyes if it realised all that she herself now knows and that the other two girls, not so fortunate as to escape, perhaps, are learning by bitter experience? (p. 11, p. 19)    

That last paragraph is a bit obtuse for the present-day but it I’m just going to assume it’s rude.     

Another article, this time in the Manchester Guardian (4 February 1926 p. 10) is arguably useful:     

No authentic information was available yesterday concerning the disappearance of Miss Honor Cecilia Paget, the nineteen-year-old ward in Chancery, who has been missing since the middle of last week.   Miss Paget, who is related to the Marquis of Anglesey, left her flat late at night with little if any luggage, and did not leave any message as to where she had gone. The family solicitors were informed of her disappearance, and the matter was placed in the hands of private detectives, but up to the moment she has not been found.  The relatives did not consider it advisable to seek the aid of publicity in endeavouring to trace the missing girl, and in fact have refused any official help.  

A press representative learned from other sources that the view is held that Miss Paget has gone for a short holiday and will write to them later in the ordinary way. Apparently the family have no misigivings that Miss Paget has come to or will come to any harm.         

Honor’s whereabouts were ultimately explained by her in another article, through United News and published in the Miami Herald 1 March 1926 (p. 3). When I say ‘explained by her’, there are probably as many questions raised as answered, but anyway:    

Find Missing Heiress: Re-appearance in San Sebastian Clears Up Speculation in Inner Circles of British Society  

San Sebastian, Feb 28 – The recent disappearance of Miss Honor Cecilia Paget, 19-year-old ward in chancery and only child of the late Admiral Sir Alfred Wyndham Paget, and of her subsequent reappearance here, cleared up the wild speculation in the inner circles of British high society.  Miss Paget is a high-spirited girl, fond of attempting the unusual, and very wealthy. It was thought she might contracted some foolish marriage or been the victim of foul play.  When interviewed exclusively by The United News, Miss Paget laughingly turned down these rumours.  

‘My sole reason for acting as I did was to escape the unjust discipline of my tutor,’ she said. ‘I left London at night, after amusing myself at some night clubs, with a little trunk containing four hats, three pairs of stockings, face powder and two pairs of shoes. I was penniless.  

‘I raised some money for transportation and took a train for [Paris?] in France. From there I took another train going to San Sebastian. I intended to go to Madrid, as I had heard that that city was the gayest city in the world.  

‘My money had become exhausted, however, and I was forced to remain here. In order to obtain food I sold my overcoat for less than $2, and subsequently the remainder of my meager wardrobe. I am now going back to London.  

‘I have been hungry in Spain,’ continued Miss Paget, ‘but my suffering was less than the ordeal of my ordinary, routine life in London.’  Asked whether she desired to get married, Miss Paget replied negatively, adding that marriage nowadays was mostly followed by separation from the husband.  

Cecilia is a coquette. As she was recounting her adventures she was continually powdering her face and rouging her lips.   

During the 10 days of her escapade, Miss Paget stayed at four hotels, each more economical than the other.  Miss Paget, as a ward in chancery, is under the direct control of the lord chancellor of England, so far as matters affecting her well-being are concerned. This situation comes when a wealthy orphan is under age and difficulties arise regarding a suitable guardian. The British judicial authorities step in and make the lord chancellor responsible.

Strikes me that it's going to be a hell of a lot easier to find out what happened to her after the end of her third marriage than it is to find out what she was doing in Spain in February 1926 but surely someone, somewhere knows more. 

Also I don't know when she went from 'Honor' to 'Honore' and whether that's a change she made somewhere between leaving Britain for the US, or whether that's an ongoing mistake made by the US press. The first seems more likely. 

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